I gathered up every CBT instruction clips that Emily Valentina has made since 2020. If you are a painslut, check them out.
2020
Mean Mistress JOI
A mean JOI game with a big reward at the end, should you succeed! If you fail, though… you’ll have to be punished. For this, you’ll need clothespins (or nipple clamps, if you have them), a long string, and a dildo with a flared base. You’re going to be degraded and punished in the meanest, most sadistic ways- I’m going to hurt you- and I’m going to make you love every moment of it! Think you can handle it, slave?
CBT JOI with post-orgasm "fun"
A VERY fun CBT instructional video with major re-watch value! For this, you'll need some rope (I recommend 1/4" but that exact size isn't necessary), clothespins/pegs, Icy Hot, and some scissors (I recommend bandage scissors, but any can work- these are exclusively for the rope). We're going to slowly build up your discomfort and pain as you go from flaccid to hard, increasing your tolerance bit by bit, as I reach you special cock and ball bondage techniques to use on yourself... all while creatively and seductively teasing you, and bringing the pain! Also contains post-orgasm "fun" (optional, but fun for warming up for another round) and cum countdown with dirty talk! Remember: I do my best to make sure these are safe and DO have professional training, but as I am not there to supervise in-person, do this at your own risk.
2021
Mean CBT JOI
As many of you know, I regularly get full-body laser hair removal, and while this does make my body incredibly soft and sexy, it also puts me in a bad mood, because it does hurt a tiny bit. And the idea that I should suffer any kind of pain down below when you exist is absolutely fucking ludicrous, so, I'm going to let my frustrations out on you, and you're going to suffer FOR ME. Will you cum from this? Maybe, maybe not, but you WILL eventually, so if you don't the first time around, you'll have to repeat this cruel treatment until you finally do. You'll need clothespins and icy hot for this one!
CBT Bucket Game
You were looking at my nipple without my permission, weren't you? That's a punishable offense, to stare without even letting me know it's out! If you were here... I'd use my special CBT flogger and ball parachute to slowly torment you with more and more weights, BUT, you'll have to do it for me, since you're stuck at home. What a tragedy- but, if you're good, maybe you'll get a reward. Maybe. All you'll need are some scissors for safety, a thin rope, a small bucket with a handle (or any container with a handle, really) and small random objects around your house. I prefer fishing weights, but anything at all can work. Maybe I'll even let you jerk... if you make it through your punishment first!
Baseball CBT
Were you looking at my nipples again without permission? You deserve to be punished! And for that, you're going to need a long sock, a baseball (or a smooth, round rock) and a baseball bat! If you survive to the end... maybe I'll let you touch yourself, but until then, I'm going to slowly warm you up to a mega-mean and INTENSE ballbusting! Will I let you cum if you survive to the end of the clip? We'll see. But remember- this IS a punishment.
Clothesline Zipper CBT JOI
It's been awhile since we're played a mean little CBT game, hasn't it? No, you're not being punished for anything this time, per se... I just feel like being mean. So, you WILL get to cum this time- but only as a reward for getting through my special zipper game. Arts and crafts are fun, right? And all you'll need for this one are a cord/thin rope and some clothespins! For CBT lovers ONLY!
2022
Playful CBT JOI with Ruined Orgasm
For this, you will need (at minimum) a candle for wax play, elastic bands OR a small flogger, and nipple clamps OR some clothespins and a length of string. We're going to play with all the different sensations I can create with varying forms of contact- the perfect way to get those endorphins flowing and rapidly pull you DEEP into subspace! I tried to make this one very accessible for non-toy-owners- you can easily and quickly make your own tools at home for this VERY fun session! Includes a ruined orgasm at the end... mean, I know, but that's the way you love it!
Your First Time Sounding JOI
Your first time sounding can be a VERY intimidating experience, so Miss Emily is here to help guide you through- safely! I'm tired of seeing subs do this the wrong way and end up injured, so this JOI includes both safety tips AND a sensually dominant JOI at the end as a reward for being a brave AND obedient subby! A lot of my "real life" personality comes out in this clip. Sounding is a very unique experience that can be far more comfortable and enjoyable than most subs realize, and, other than anal penetration, is one of the only ways to directly access the prostate- which can result in a prolonged orgasmic sensation. Key tips: remember to take it slow and use LOTS of lube! You will need: a proper sounding kit, latex or nitrile gloves, and sterile lube. Remember to sterilize your genital area beforehand, and your equipment before and after! Boiling is the most accessible method, and while an autoclave is best, metricide and cavicide are also very effective products for equipment sterilization, followed by hydrogen peroxide and iodine! I also highly recommend sterilizing the genital area and urethra with iodine beforehand. Remember to follow all health and allergy instructions for any product you choose to use, as well. I do my best to give you the most thorough instructions possible, but because this is distance instruction, do this at your own risk.
2024
CBT JOI
You have a weakness- my ample tits and ass. They make you weak, make you throb, make you drip. It's impossible to resist me, so you might as well start pumping- yes, even if it hurts. ESPECIALLY if it hurts. I don't care how much the friction makes your dick burn, you can't stop PUMPING to my perfection. You're going to cum so hard, in spite of the pain. Or perhaps, because of the pain- because whether you like it or not, I'm going to turn you into a little painslut, and make you thank me for every moment of this, even after I've finally granted you permission to cum. Nonnude. Originally a custom, name used is "Mike".