Will you own me? Yes i will

Being owned is best thing ever could happen to any sub. it’s like the prefect end for his suffering. on other hand, it’s a big decision, in fact it’s the biggest decision in his life. 

I have been in this scene long enough to learn some lessons. Some of them were painful and ugly too. I came up with few advices.

• Don't rush being owned. I know it's beautiful. I know it's your dream. Just don't go too fast. Take it slow and pay attention to your partner.
• Be honest and clear. Don't compromise or lie! if you think about it this way. If you pretend to be someone else just to be accepted by a dominatrix, you will end up being accused of lying. No body will say you were "trying too hard" to meet your partner' needs. for example, if your domme is into fin-slaves only, don’t keep it quit if you are not. just tell the truth.
• Be clear about what you want. Speak up with all respect and do tell your partner about yourself. if you aren’t into things, say it. for example, if you don't accept the idea of being sissy, well talk! 
• Ask about everything, don't lay on things will go well. Hell NO, things will go shit if you step on a trap. some maybe gets his hunt in these gray area, Do not leave gray areas in your relationship.
• learn to discuss things. your limits can be expanded with her help. just tell he what you fear to try and what you want to try.

All subs had good days and bad days. I'm sure all dommes could tell the same. I realize that most of subs don't really know what being owned really means as well as some dommes. they don’t know what does it mean to own someone. 

“to be owned”  for some subs  means I will go exclusive and won't jerk for another hot girls. “to own” for some dommes  means I have you in the trap now I can ignore you and hunt for a new victim. 

To own and to be owned, these are  very strong words. People shouldn't be throwing them around like candies. Owning is a scary word. Just like the proposal in the regular relationship, you must be freaking out when you hear it for the first time. It should take very long time of knowing each other, and building up a solid ground of trust. 

I think it's the best for everybody to take things like we did in collage by courses or classes. Ask a domme if she agrees for some sort of "training programs" that has limited timeline. Then when it ends, you both can decide if you want to keep going to this school or no. 

I think by this idea we can avoid lots of drama. Dommes avoid stupid worthless time-waster. And subs avoid being torn apart by someone. 

Clip Review: 24 Hours Of Stroking

Since the description says it's for a chronic masturbator, I thought it's for me lol. This is a very intense assignment for submissive boys. If you are like me, you will take it seriously and try to follow every small detail of it. I assure you, you will love the results. this gonna blow your mind away. Mistress Bianca is going take you from your boring days to an experience full of excitement. She us going to set you on fire today. she knows the secret of mixing pain & pleasure.

Take a good look

Now follow my lead

In this clip, she teases you with her sexy body, you get to see her incredible butt and her delicious cleavage. She is wearing just a top and panties. can you resist that? After few seconds, you will love to torture yourself for her all day. Edging is different with her. She will take it to the next level.

try to resist

With her calm voice, she will tell you about yourself: "I know you're a chronic masturbator so you're going to enjoy the fun we're about to have." 
You will obey to her direct orders. "You're going to jerk your cock over and over and over while watching this clip for 24 hours straight. However, you will not be permitted to cum until the 24th hour when your cock is red and raw and your hand is tired, blowing your load will truly be a challenge!"


Buy it NOW:

http://clips4sale.com/47686/6976697
http://www.kinkbomb.com/24-Hours-Of-Stroking.html

Clip Info:
Category: Masturbation Instruction
Media Format: WMV

File size: 133 MB
Media Playtime: 6:03

is she a real Domme ? part2

Part II


In my last post, I divided the satiation into two sentences:

1. Dominatrix submits occasionally.
2. Dominatrix by day, slut by night. 

So, now i am gonna discuss the second part.

Does having a sexual desire make a lady less dominant ?  I find it selfish and stupid to think that A domme should do that for lots of reasons. two of them :1) are well setting rules for dommes now? 2) A domme in a permeant chastity sounds ironic?
who has the right to tell any woman that ?

But, someone could argue that in some cases, there are “dommes” being “whores” undercover for money ? are they real ones ? let’s face it, Female domination, specially financial domination, is a golden gate now. everybody is a domme. I'm not talking about these, because “real” dommes are proving themselves everyday. each word from them is a clear massage about who they are. pay attention, slaves, and look closer you will figure it out.

so, to end up the sexual needs of the domme issue, we can solve this by one of the most famous fetishes; cuckolding. voilà  !

I find myself being attracted to “real dommes”. a real domme has lots of qualifications.but the obvious one is to be a real person who has needs and feelings, who has a life! Knowing that A domme is happily married is sounds perfect for me, even if she doesn't involve her man in the scene.

Is she a real Domme ?

Part I

What should a submissive man do when he sees a dominant lady in a submission position ? What should he do when he see her in a non dominate sexual degrading moment, like her face is covered with jizz ? How should he react ? How should he feel ?
It is a very confusing moment for a man who worships women and truly believes in female supremacy. 

Before I try to answer these question, let me divide this satiation into two sentences: 

1. Dominatrix submits occasionally.
2. Dominatrix by day, slut by night. 

Nikki Benz

We all aware that life isn't black and white, and BDSM isn't an exception.Also we all aware of the three famous roles in BDSM; top, bottom, and switch. But this is a very naive way to look at things. top is a big category that has levels, just like bottom. is anyone familiar with the term “alpha male” ? well, there is alpha Queen Domme as well as alpha subs who are under her but in the same time they are on top of a lower bottom, and things go that way, until we reach the lowest bottom. Many times, a queen choices a group of bottoms whom where trained to be tops to help her.

I would like to think that most of people are switch but in different levels. It's very rare to find a person with one way road. I'm proud to had the chance to know few. 

In the same time I was shocked by many of aggressive sadistic dommes who simply crave to get beaten or degraded from time to time. I can write some names if that helps. But who am I to judge them. Should they change their titles from dommes to switches ? What if she is a domme most of the time and has this little tiny need to get spanked once awhile?

It's ridiculous to judge them for what they want. But does this formula works for submissive men as well? Does a slave get to change his attitude once awhile without being accused that he is not a “real” slave? 

I think it would makes things much easier if we spend more time talking about ourselves, elaborating in describing our needs, instead of shrinking it in one word. Be generous and express yourself more and more.

(to be continued ..)