Sunday, April 21, 2013

Dialogue: Should Boys bust their own balls?


Self Ballbusting has been an interesting topic for me for long time. I spent good time searching about it, asking people to come up with a general vision. First let me lay down some benefits of this fetish. It is perfect for a lonely submissive boy or unowned one. It could considered as a good practicing for a ball busting session. It's useful in long distance D/s relationships. 

You maybe asking yourself am I doing it right? should I hit harder or go gentle?And in most cases you fear to cause a permanent damage because of your lack of experience.

I went around and I asked lots of Dommes and Pro Dommes “How much do you encourage a submissive boy to bust his own balls ?” and here are some of the *answers.



----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------




----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------



----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------



-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------


also i went out and asked some boys. most of them recommended for different reasons. i will lay down their **answers too.

 Zonata
When you receive the message from your brain known as "pain" it always means potential danger. So of course it is dangerous to bust your balls. It does not mean that doing so will result in permanent damage. If you do not trepass the limit, you should be ok. I do bust myself, but I don't try dangerous methods and keep it to a reasonable level.

I smack the crap out of my nuts all the time. it's fine. However, I'm prone to use a sock balled up and placed in the toe of another sock (I'm more into the psychological aspects of the game) but if you're going to be using a rubber mallet with your jewels on a board, all bets are off!

I bust my own balls, bust other guy's balls and let them bust my balls for many years now.
No problems sofar. Sometimes it takes some days to get painfree but they always recover.
Just respect your limits and don't bust them hard when they can't escape, let them hang free when you bust them and they will be fine.

i can't agree more with cbtlouis - be very cautious if the balls can't escape but otherwise, when hanging free, you can bash away and your pain reaction will most likely limit what you do. Tolerance does improve, however, with practise.


----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

To help you get started, I have a big guide post for great Female Ballbusters giving instructions.





*Dommes answers were asked by myself on Formspring.
**boys answers were from a Discussion i started on Fetlife:

No comments:

Post a Comment

TASKS: Task by Vibi your CBT teacher

Stand with open legs and grab your balls by the base. Stretch them as far as you can. Now keep them stretched and slap them with a ruler 40x...